"My Teenage
Deathbed" By Stephanie Nolasco Life
of a normal teen I was just a normal teenager growing up in a quiet
neighborhood in Ohio. I was a straight A student on the honor roll, leader of
a winning chess team, and had lots of great friends. My mom finally got a new
job after having a painful divorce from my father and things were going great.
I had never felt so alive, but there was just one thing missing from my life.
Someone that I can love and cherish with all my heart. I had never even kissed
a boy and already I was seventeen. All my friends bragged about having these amazing
boyfriends who bought them gifts and beautiful jewelry. Although I hated to admit
this, I was just simply jealous. I felt so alone. I believed that I would never
find someone to love me or make me feel that I was special. My high school prom
was coming up, and so far no one had asked me to go. I began to worry and wondered
if I should even go. I mean who would I dance with? Who would kiss me goodnight?
What good memories would I get from being alone? He
came into my life. Eric Macbury was the starting quarterback of
our high school football team. He happened to be the most popular guy in our school.
Rumors were spreading that he had no date for the prom yet and the girls were
going crazy. Wherever he went, some crazy girl would follow him and ask him to
be her date, but he would always reply,"I'm not sure, but I'll get back to
you." A couple of weeks later, I went to the library to work on
a report that was due. Eric was there doing the same one. His light blue eyes
looked at my brown ones and he smiled. I began to blush, but I was sweating like
I was running a marathon. He stood up and sat next to me. "You're Janice
Larson, right?" "Yeah." "Hey, I'm Eric. I've seen
you around school. I was hoping that maybe, if you wanna, we can go check out
a movie or somethin." "Su-sure." I stuttered, in shock from
what he had just said. Ever since then, Eric and I were going out. Our relationship
was getting and stronger and we did almost everything together. He even asked
me to the prom! I started becoming popular and I felt like a queen. But only if
I knew then that one wrong move would change my life forever. My
first night It was Saturday evening. My mother had gone away to
Chicago on a business meeting. I was home alone, watching MTV. I was extremely
bored and was ready to go to sleep. The phone began to ring and I picked it up.
It was Eric. He told me that his parents had gone away for their anniversary and
he was all alone. He asked me if I wanted him to pick me up so we can go back
to his house and do something and of course I said yes. Within a few minutes his
car was in front of my porch. He called out and told me to hop in. We both drove
away and a few minutes later we were at his house. The lights were off and his
smiled glowed the room."Janice, there's something that I wanted to show for
awhile. Let's go upstairs and I'll show you." We both went upstairs
and to my dismayed, I saw something beyond my imagination. The room was dark,
except strawberry red candles that lighted and scented the room of sweet cream.
The bedsheets were made of raw peachy silk, which was covered by white rosepetals.
A glass vase was filled with white roses. Eric smiled and pushed me down to the
bed. He started kissing me all over. We tore each other's clothes off and he got
on top of me. I moaned and grunted while he thrust in and out of me. We made love
all night. Although there were times when I wanted to scream from the harsh pain
of my tearing muscles, I enjoyed every minute of it. It
never came My relationship with Eric continued to get stronger
every day. I was no longer a virgin and I was damn proud of it. I had a smile
from ear to ear each day. I finally found the love of my life, and we had done
something that was so amazing and unreal. We had lost our virginity to each other.
However, all of the excitement of becoming a woman ended abruptly when a few weeks
later, my period never came. I assumed that I was having another of those irregularities.
But things grew worse. I constantly threw up every morning and ate things that
made me more nauseous. I always wanted to sleep and my breasts were always sore.
My cheeks grew puffy and my stomach rippled constantly. I reassured my mother
that it was just the flu. I called Eric and told him about it. After school, we
both went to the pharmacy and bought a pregnancy test. I wanted to be confident
that I was not pregnant, but I wasn't so sure. It had to be the flu. It was my
first time. How can you get pregnant on your first time? We both went to his house
and closed the bathroom door shut. Half and hour later, my eyes were red and puffy
from crying. Eric was pale and unable to speak. The test was positive. Telling
the world I couldn't hide my secret any longer. I waited for my
mother to be in a good mood. That is when I gave her the unpleasant surprise.
She was silent and her eyes stared down. She went dead, like a computer shutting
off. Her body dropped, like a bag filled with bones, on the living room floor.
I started to scream out of horror and I dialed Eric's number. I was nervous and
I was unsure of what to do. He came over like a bolt of lightning and brought
smelling salt. He waved it in my mother faces and her eyes opened up. She breathed
heavily, but my tears kept falling like rain. I didn't know what to do. I felt
so lost and confused. I had made my mother suffer. I made her feel this way. Eric
thought that my mother and I should talk so he left. My mother got up and stared
at me coldly. "Janice Larson. I never believed that a smart girl like
you would do such a stupid thing. I'm tired, just too fucking tired to deal with
all this shit in my life. I thought you would be better than that, but I guess
I am wrong again… You take your things. You leave. NOW. And
don't you ever come back. EVER. You are no longer my child and I am no longer
your mother."My heart unraveled from pain. My hands trembled. I threw up
and cried at the same time. I took a small suitcase, packed a few clothes, and
left. Living as a pregnant teen Eric
let me stay with him and his parents, but I still felt like I had nowhere to turn.
I felt helpless, like I had no future, even though I continued to go to school.
I was kicked off the honor roll. All of my friends refused to talk to me. While
they were talking about where to buy a new prom dress, I was debating over whether
I should send the child to an adoption center or have an abortion. Then I made
the decision that I never thought I would make. I decided to keep my baby. I kept
my child because I felt that I should be responsible for my actions. Although
I would have to make a lot of sacrifices in my life, I had to deal with the consequences,
no matter what. When I told Eric about my decision, he was devastated. He threw
my suitcase out the window. "Janice I'm sorry, I love you, and
I will forever regret this decision, but I have a life also. And I'm not planning
to end it now because of that fucking fetus. Have a nice life."I never saw
Eric again. He and all of my friends graduated and went to college. I, on the
other hand, didn't. I never graduated. I never went to my prom. I didn't even
have anyone to stick by me. I lived on the streets and in shelters. I would eat
leftovers from garbages and ice-cold soup from the soup kitchen. I sold cocaine
and XTC to gain whatever money I could. I would sleep in the Community Park and
I was known as "the town whore." The money that I earned from selling
drugs was used to buy new clothes and rent rooms so I could shower. A few months
later, my daughter was born. Erica
Erica was born in the local hospital on a Monday evening. She was so beautiful.
She had soft blond hair and bright blue eyes, just like her father. Every hour,
she would cry and sometimes I had no food and she would sleep with an empty stomach.
I eventually got on welfare, and Erica and I lived on a cramped apartment. The
bedroom was in the kitchen. I couldn't find any work because I had to take care
of Erica, so I had to work at home-as a prostitute. I hated it, but it was the
only way I can buy diapers and milk for Erica. I sold more cocaine and XTC, which
was enough to buy clothes and pay the rent. Depression
Now, I am still in the same predicament. I had no mother, no lover, and no friends.
I had nothing. I am nothing. How am I to continue raising a child under these
conditions? I wanted to go to law school, become a lawyer, get married, and then
have children. But all these dreams were shattered in less than a year. I realize
that true friends would stick by you no matter what. I wish I had one. My child
doesn't even have a father. I am nothing but a piece of trash. I can't live in
a world filled with so much pain. Erica doesn't deserve this. She deserves so
much more. That's why we both have to die. We both need to go to heaven and be
happy. We need to end our lives. I'm not a mother. I can't be one. Erica needs
to be in a much better place. And I'm going to make sure life will never hurt
us again. Goodbye Before my daughter
and I go on our way to the Promised Land, I want to let whoever read this know
that I am not a bad person. I am doing this for the benefit of both of us. I just
made a mistake. I was just trying to find love in the wrong place at the wrong
time. I should have made decisions that could have lead to a better life, but
I didn't. I wish I had the money so that my daughter and I could sleep with full
stomachs and a happy home. I am not stupid. I tried, but I failed. This is not
the life for Erica or me. This is our story. We both hope that we have given you
an upclose look of what it is like to become a teen mother. I hope all teen mothers
can find life easier and can withstand the undying pain and embarrassment. Mother,
I love you. Eric, I still love you. We both love you. I'm sorry. I have to do
this. Goodbye. fiction by Stephanie Nolasco, Sun, 27 Jan
2002.... I am a 16 year old Dominican writer. I wish to become a journalist
someday and I believe that writing is the language of the soul.
"When
you find yourself judging someone, silently say to yourself, "They are doing
the best they can right now." Then mentally forgive yourself for judging
them." -Marsha Sinetar in 100 Years of Womens Wisdom
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