*Louise's Story

I have always believed that abortion was a woman's personal decision and not one I had any right to judge. But I honestly could not answer myself as to what I would do if faced with the situation. I don't think any woman really knows what she would do until faced with something so difficult.

I'm 34, and have been separated from my husband for almost a year. I have been in a relationship for several months with a wonderful man. A man who will be my partner for life. I have a 10 year old daughter and he has 2 from previous relationships. We are both professional, educated people. And even though we did use birth control, I have just found out I am pregnant.

After much discussion, we have made the decision to terminate the pregnancy. It was not a decision that either one of us came by with ease. There were hours of talking and tears. But we both know that if I were to have this child at this point in our lives it could cause severe repercussions. Most that even time could not repair. For the first time in my life I understand what every woman who has made this decision feels.

None of this is easy and it will take time to grieve and to heal. But I know that my choice is the right one.

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