I found out i was pregnant on my birthday
and have been in a state of shock, depression, confusion and anger ever since.
knowing i couldn't keep the baby, i went to my doctor for help. i received really
poor health "care" from her, whom i can only guess is pro-life. she
made me feel even worse about my situation and offered no solace. after getting
home, wiping the tears away and taking a deep breath, i wrote her a letter of
complaint and asked that she reevaluate her treatment methods for the next woman
like me who comes to her for help. i then got online and decided to seek out some
information on the abortion procedure, some guidance and maybe even get some comfort.
again and again, i found myself at very subversive and deceivingly disguised
pro-life sites which described awful physical pain from the procedures and
medieval descriptions of the tools and knives used. i was amazed that the websites
of planned parenthood and webmd didn't have links to sites like yours that could
help me cope with the pain. after doing a search on vaginal irritation (because
to top it off, i've got some kind of laceration which is very painful--and which
my doctor had no explanation for) i found your site. i read the clinic worker's
story of the 1000 abortions she's witnessed
and cried and cried because i finally "heard" the words i needed to
i can't thank you enough for putting this information out there for
me and all other men and women who are suffering.Lea
21 September 2001
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